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# Coaching vs. micromanaging.

A short framework for telling the difference between developing someone and controlling them.

- A three-question check on whether you are coaching or micromanaging right now
- The "Let's talk, but you decide" approach and the one-page mutual expectations idea
- Three actions for this week and a quick-reference page you can pin up

## Get the free guide

The Coaching Line · 8 pages · PDF

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Coaching vs. micromanaging.

The Coaching Line

COACHING OR MICROMANAGING?

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## What's inside

### Coaching develops people

Jason Casarella on why micromanaging happens and what true coaching looks like, including his written promise to his team.

### Let's talk, but you decide

How high support and low direction work at the task level, and how to turn one-on-ones into real conversations.

### The coaching check

Three questions to tell whether you are coaching or micromanaging, with room to write your answers.

### This week

What to stop doing, the best advice he received, and three actions to try right away.

[Get the guide](https://coaching.velocityadvisorygroup.com/leadership-library/coaching-line#get-it)

## Results and feedback from Velocity's leadership work

**30% to 8%**employee turnover in one yearBiopharmaceutical company

**+126%**strategic alignment liftBiopharmaceutical company

**95%**retention rate in a construction leadership programVelocity client

> “Now associates understand themselves better, and leaders have new tools to support their teams.”

Chief People and Culture Officer, healthcare products distributor

> “Velocity challenged our team and brought us together in ways that have paid immediate dividends.”

Managing Partner, accounting and advisory firm

## Why leaders slip into micromanaging

Micromanaging rarely starts as a choice. It usually starts with pressure.

### Pressure From Above

Unrealistic expectations from senior leaders push managers toward highly directive behavior.

### Insecurity and Doubt

A leader's own insecurity, or a lack of confidence in the team, turns check-ins into control.

### One Approach for Everyone

Using the same style with every person ignores that certain people are just good at certain things.

## From control to coaching

The highest performing teams are fully empowered and fully supported, and that balance has to be built on purpose.

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### SET EXPECTATIONS

Agree in writing on what the team can expect from the leader and what the leader expects from them.

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### COACH THE TASK

Match support and direction to the task, not the person, and turn status meetings into support conversations.

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### BUILD THE HABIT

Velocity helps leaders build coaching habits through executive coaching, leadership development, and DISC and Birds work on how each person prefers to be supported.

**In Jason Casarella's words:** "True coaching is about developing people and really helping them to see their potential, making them feel as though you believe in them and their abilities."

### Who this is for

- New managers learning to lead former peers
- Leaders who suspect they hold on too tightly
- Teams that feel over-managed and under-supported
- Organizations building a coaching culture

## Coach your team instead of directing it

Download the guide, then talk with us about building coaching habits across your leaders.

[Get the guide](https://coaching.velocityadvisorygroup.com/leadership-library/coaching-line#get-it)

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