Stop sending emails. Pick up the phone.
A short framework for leading under pressure without losing the parts of yourself that make you effective.
- A three-question check on trust, communication, and your own outlets
- Three actions for this week, from picking up the phone to naming your hobby
- A quick-reference page you can pin up
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The Hobby-First Leader · 8 pages · PDF
What's inside
When people start asking "What would you do?"
How Julie Blasingim recognized real leadership in her team's words, and why an opportunity sometimes waits on the company, not on you.
The habits behind it
Why email strips out tone and dialogue, plus the morning quiet time and humility behind her leadership.
When did someone last ask "What would you do?"
Three questions on whether your team invokes your judgment, which emails should be calls, and what protects your own happiness.
This week
Three concrete actions, a stop-doing habit, Blasingim's best leadership advice, and a quick-reference page.
Results and feedback from Velocity's leadership work
“Now associates understand themselves better, and leaders have new tools to support their teams.”
“Velocity challenged our team and brought us together in ways that have paid immediate dividends.”
Why trust stays shallow
Trust assigned with a title isn't the same as trust a team has internalized.
One-Way Email
Email has no passion and no tone, so an important message can land like an edict and shut down the dialogue people want.
No Time to Think
Without a few quiet minutes to decide what success looks like today, the day's demands set the agenda.
Leaders Without Outlets
The most successful leaders have a hobby. Treating your own happiness as optional costs you part of what makes you effective.
From insight to habit
People want to be heard and have a voice, and that starts with how leaders choose to communicate.
TALK
Move important, emotionally loaded topics from email to a phone call or a real conversation.
PREPARE
Protect a few minutes of quiet time each morning to decide what success looks like before the demands arrive.
COACH
Velocity's leadership coaching and team workshops help leaders build communication habits that earn the kind of trust Blasingim describes.
Lead in a way your team carries forward
Download the guide, then talk with us about the communication habits that build lasting trust.